Dating cheap men
All of this begs the unfortunate and delicate question: is it possible that you take your boyfriend’s money for granted? After all, you may have taken a pay cut, but you probably still live in a big house with a nice car and have everything you need.
So while I’m not going to defend your fiancées behavior – cheap is not cool – I’d have to ask you one really tough question: Would you be marrying him if HE made ,000?
The reason they’re rich is because they don’t spend any of their money! There are plenty of people who have issues around money – including yours truly – but your multi-millionaire takes the very expensive wedding cake.
The online bank ING Direct recently conducted a survey that asked participants to name words that might come to mind if someone offered to set them up with a person described as frugal.And, if not, are you also equating love with money?It’s not that I’m not sympathetic to your plight, Lara, but it’s my responsibility to point out the side of things that you may not have already considered. Click here to learn how I can show you the path to dating success!I hear you, and I’m sure a number of readers do, too. Which gives you two choices: leave him because you feel like you can’t spend your life with a rich man who is cheap, or stick around and appreciate that you have a super life, filled with love, companionship, fun, and tons of material possessions – but your husband is simply a skinflint. I also think you may be equating his lack of generosity with a lack of love. I think two things: he’s genuinely cheap, and he genuinely loves you.The real sticking point is that his take on “his money vs. He can provide for you in 100 different ways, but because he’s hesitant to give you 0 to go to the store, he doesn’t truly love you. If he didn’t love you, he wouldn’t be marrying you.